I once had a VIP private-room dance at Palomino Club (club review / club website) in which the dancer started lightly brushing her nipples over my face. This was early in a 3/100 dance, and I was in titty heaven. I just closed my eyes and sat there enjoying it. But after she had done this for a minute or two, she suddenly backed up until I opened my eyes and looked at her. She looked me in the eye and said, “Dammit, would you suck my titties!”
This kind of thing is one of the advantages of getting a private-room dance instead of the group VIP. But it was also a reminder that dancers often get real enjoyment out of these dances that make us so happy.
The first time I discovered this was in the mid-70s at the Mitchell Brothers O’Farrell Theater in San Francisco (see our article on The Birth of Lap Dancing). The hippie chicks working there suddenly started coming down from the stage one day and snuggling in everyone’s laps. They were literally inventing lap dancing. One of the dancers who sat in my lap whispered in my ear, “Feel how wet I am.”
(This was SF in the 70s when dancers would make out with you. In Vegas clubs today, this won’t happen.)
Since I started this blog a few years ago, I’ve had an opportunity to talk with a lot of Vegas dancers about their job, what they liked and didn’t like. At Deja Vu Showgirls (club review/ club website), I asked one of our first Dancers of the Month, Kaz Monet, what she liked about being a dancer and she said flatly, “I love doing private shows.”
After that, I started asking dancers specifically how they felt about one-on-one performances. Vallerina Estrella, at Little Darlings (club review / club website), said, “I have to admit I like doing private shows more than stage dancing. I like dancing on stage, but it’s just a tease. Private shows are more personal and more sexual. What I like most about dancing is getting naked and sexy.”
Another Little Darlings dancer, Serenity, said, “I really pride myself on my private dances. I love being sexual and when I do a dance for someone, I want to do a dance that they’ll remember forever. I want them to want to come back for more.”
LaDonna, who dances at Palomino Club, said, “In private shows I get to show my more sexual side. I take private dances very seriously. I want the men I dance for to feel honored that I’m dancing for them.”
My one-on-one experiences with Vegas dancers overall lead me to believe that it’s not just about the money. Dancers like the intimacy of private shows for a lot of the same reasons we guys do — they’re a turn-on.
|Pro Tip: For the best private show experience, spend a little time getting to know a dancer before you head off to the VIP. Buy her a drink and flirt. Tell her she’s beautiful. Think of it as a mini-courtship. Then, once you reach the VIP, don’t rush things. Let her take the lead. Once she knows she can trust you she’ll often allow more than you’d think.|