How to Get Attention in a Vegas Strip Club
Think of a Vegas strip club as a party. If you’ve ever gone to a party where you didn’t know anyone, it’s not difficult to be a wallflower. A quiet guy may easily find himself sitting in a dark corner, feeling ignored for hours.
A variation of this can sometimes happen in a Vegas strip club. In the TVO comments section recently, a guy complained about this very problem. These complaints tend to come in two forms:
♦ I sat there for two hours and no dancer approached me to offer a lap dance.
Or, a common variation:
♦ I sat there for two hours and the only dancers who approached me were the ones I wasn’t attracted to.
Vegas strip clubs may be quite different from the strip clubs you have at home. The clubs here can be a lot larger, packed with hundreds of customers and dozens or even hundreds of dancers. There will often be a number of guys flashing a lot of money. And a guy from out of town won’t usually know the dancers in the Vegas clubs, even if he comes to Vegas fairly often. The dancers in Vegas fly into town from all over the country and you never know who’s going to be in a club on any given night.
Plus, those dancers flying into town have a lot of expenses to cover. They’re naturally going to gravitate toward the appearance of money. You may have five hundred dollars in your pocket to spend on laps and the VIP, but if you’re not giving off money vibes, you may be invisible to them.
Just as in Vegas nightclubs, guys who buy bottle service and get a seat at a reserved table always get girls to their table. Hosts will point you out to dancers. You are obviously spending money. A big bottle sitting on your table with ice and a bunch of mixers is like a billboard telling dancers that you have money to spend.
But maybe you don’t want bottle service because you simply don’t drink very much. Or maybe you’d rather spend your money on dancers than booze.
How do you get dancers to know you’re alive?
Again, think of the strip club as a party. You don’t have to wait for action–you can create it. If you see a group of dancers talking with each other, walk up to them and say hi. They are there to be friendly to customers. That’s how they make their money. In a regular nightclub, you have to worry about getting rejected when you approach a girl. In a Vegas strip club, you don’t have to worry about that. Their job is saying yes.
If there is no group of dancers standing around talking, wait for a dancer you like to appear on stage, and go up and splash some money around. It doesn’t take a whole lot of dollars to make an impression when you’re tipping a dancer on stage.
Lots of guys neglect the dancers on stage. You’ll see a few guys on the rail each throwing a buck up there. If you tip $10 or $20, you will usually stand out.
The dancer will come over and dance for you. She will usually talk to you and ask if you’d like a private dance. Say yes.
Your Strip Club Image
The same trick works if you’re only getting approached by dancers you’re not attracted to. This has happened to me a few times. I’m an older guy. I often find I’m first approached by older dancers who look at me and figure I’ll see them as young (and I do).
It only becomes a problem if other dancers you’re even more attracted to are getting driven away by the dancers you’re not as attracted to. Once I buy a lap dance from one older dancer, suddenly I may find that every older dancer in the club is standing in line to ask me for a dance. The younger dancers can’t get near me.
And keep in mind that you quickly develop an image in a strip club. Maybe you’re a guy who is a connoisseur of big titties. But a sweet young girl with little titties is pestering you for a dance, and you don’t have the heart to say no to her. Now all the other girls in the club assume you’re a guy who is into little titties. Suddenly you’re hopelessly surrounded by A cups.
This is a genuine strip club emergency! You have to bust out of that image. Again, go to the stage and throw money at a dancer with big titties. Tell her she’s your type and ask her if she’s busy.
The strip club stage is your get out of jail free card.
Location, Location, Location
If you want a lot of dancers to approach you, don’t sit next to drunks who are making a lot of noise. Every dancer in the club is likely to avoid the area.
And if you want mileage, don’t sit next to a couple. I encourage couples to go to strip clubs together. I take my own wife to my favorite strip clubs with me. I consider strip clubs a great erotic date for couples.
But if I’m going to a strip club without my wife, I don’t want a couple sitting anywhere near me.
After much scientific research, I have found that mileage goes down in direct relation to your proximity to a couple.
Why? Because this whole couples thing in strip clubs is still relatively new, and dancers are still afraid of how the female in a couple is going to react to a high-mileage dance.
You may have a dancer in your lap who normally gives the sluttiest dance in the club, but if you’re sitting next to a couple, it’ll suddenly be like she is giving you a lap dance in church.
And the Easiest Way to Get What You Want – Talk to a Strip Club Host
Last but not least, the single easiest way to get what you want at a major Vegas strip club is to talk to one of the club’s hosts. You want a dozen lap dances with the club’s most beautiful blondes? A host is the guy who can keep the blondes coming. He is there specifically to make introductions and keep you happy, and you don’t have to be Floyd Mayweather to get his help.
For more information on how to work with a Vegas strip club host, see Vegas Strip Club Hosts – There to Take Care of You.