Why Do Men Go to Vegas Strip Clubs?

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Why Do Men Go to Strip Clubs?

Fast Answer: To look at sexy girls, and talk to them.

It’s not a new book, but the species changes little in the 25 years since anthropologist Katherine Frank published G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire. The book is based on the author’s six years of working as a stripper in numerous clubs, big and small, and on interviews she conducted with her regular customers during that time. Is it really so complicated that it is worthy of an academic book? Can you say, “Misty to the main page!“?

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G-Strings and Sympathy: Strip club Regulars and Male Desire

The author says that before she became a stripper, she was an anti-pornography feminist, but that in talking to the men who were strip club regulars, she came to see that, just like women in our society, men too were damaged by the sexist culture we live in. They had difficulty dealing with what they saw as women’s conflicting demands for both traditional masculine traits and more emotional presence.  And they were confused by the desire of women to be called beautiful but not be objectified.

Katherine Frank reported that she had very positive experiences dancing. She said:  “I learned that men have a much more varied perception of what sort of bodies are beautiful or sexy than a lot of women think they do … I had stereotyped men as wanting something narrow, when in fact they have a wide variety of tastes.”

She stated that for men who are in love with their wives and want to stay married, what happens in strip clubs is “real enough to be exciting, but was still a fantasy.”

Are Strip Clubs Bad for a Relationship?

Among her findings were that strip clubs do not interfere with a man’s ability to achieve intimacy with a girlfriend or wife. Katherine Frank argues that going to strip clubs actually solidified the marriages of many of her interview subjects.

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When interviewed by Salon Magazine Dr. Frank was asked how she would feel if her husband went to a strip club, she responded: “Honestly, I wouldn’t like it! For me, a lot of it is about the money — I don’t have the disposable income to spend on that kind of entertainment, and if he did have that kind of extra money, I’d want it to be fair. Maybe if I could spend dollar for dollar somewhere else, but unfortunately, there aren’t yet places where women can go pay hot young men to stroke their egos. That may come in the future.” (Yes, there are those Doctor!)

Why Do You Like Strip Clubs?

For me, I enjoy talking to the dancers the most. Their lives are generally more drama filled and interesting than mine at any given moment. I don’t have the drama, the challenges and the enthusiasm they have. The fact they have an adorable ass, firm tits and are generous with compliments doesn’t hurt their chances either!

Here’s why I love strip clubs …….

 

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